Sex is a mystery to many people. Most people know that God created Love (and sex as its physical manifestation); God gives and takes has joy in it; and sex has a divine purpose. We all know from Genesis that God created both male and female. He created them in his own image, he blessed them, commanded them to be fruitful and multiply, and to care for the earth.
Sex is a yearning of our biologically as well as energetically incomplete self that yearns to complete itself through joining with its complementary counterpart that the opposite sex is.
It tends us to join biologically. It tends us to join energetically too. Are the two different?
Not exactly, but the difference lies in their depths. The body is the surface of the sea that has the turbulent waters of energy lying beneath it, going as deep as the unfathomable bottom of the sea.
Sex is an interaction between two energies that complement each other - male and female. Energy touches energy and the two energies resonate together to turn into a vast sea of energy giving rise to the real sex between the two energy systems that we humans essentially are. That's why sex is always HOT!
Hot sex turns into wild sex and that is what the haracteristic of good sex is!
Tantric sex plays with the energy of sex in order to summon it up and sustain it without wasting it out by falling prey to shallow sex that sucks energy and hence turns it into dirty sex or group sex orgies so prevalent in the human society today! Tantric sex is more free sex than any other public sex on earth, but it also is more disciplined sex than any other sex on earth!
When only two bodies join without their energies touching, they go chaotic which results in sucking energy from both of them. As the energy gets sucked, the bodies go lifeless. Hot sex gets reduced to a mere luxury of mind.
Simply because sex is the most powerful, and hence, the most compelling perception on earth! The power of sex lies in the depth it can take us to. But, is sex really satisfying?
Hot sex is! But unluckily, we have not yet explored the real depth sex can really take us to.
But then, why do we feel tempted toward adultery - in reality or in mind?
We, in our ignorance, deal with shallow sex and come back unfulfilled from its doors. But the thrill of sex calls us back to touch the depth, and we try to compensate the depth with the width. We feel like having sex with newer partners making new sex stories (if not sex videos!) with them.
We think that would provide us with real hot sex! We do it or not - that is a different question, but we do feel like doing, i.e., having sex with newer partners.
Nobody can deny it. Okay, but what's the harm?
A lot! No matter how much wide the width of sex is, it can never replace the depth of sex.It can never provide us the real hot sex. We come back unfulfilled from the doors of sex. And we come back bitten by the shallow sex with a host of problems in our sex performance, e.g., premature ejaculation, impotence, frigidity, vaginismus, orgasmic dysfunction, and like; as well as with a lot many sex distortions, e.g., lesbian sex, gay sex and many others!
Slowly and gradually, the entire game of sex starts turning dull and boring, and we need playing exciting sex games in order to add some spice of thrill into it; or else we search for new sex tips to turn its dead alive!
Sex can be very destructive when money is involved. Today the minds of young people and children have become so polluted with impure sexual images because of filthy language, DVDs, films, books and literature. It all has to do with money. Sex is big business that seeks to consume everybody. The tragedy is that schools, businesses, families, and churches are advocating this.
It has become so bad that this issue of sex is now a spiritual mine field which children have to cross without support.
In the whole of reality there is only one law: the law of Love. Everything follows it except man. Man is surrounded by a shell called egoism. He lives in it and thinks of nothing but himself.While in the past we could afford to live that way, today we can no longer do that. Our egoism has reached its highest level and is threatening the safety of humanity as a whole.